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Lesson 1 Know -- exactly -- what you, as a coach, can do for people Full Practice 100 Program |
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Potential clients don't really care about you or coaching... I don't know that the term 'coaching' has even been properly defined or easily described, so I suggest that you steer clear of trying to talk about "coaching." In my experience, while people may sound curious about what coaching is, what they are really wanting to know is exactly how you can help them with a problem or opportunity. Potential clients just want to know if and how you can help them... And they need your help to do this. They need to hear SPECIFICALLY what you can do. Mistake #1: Being too general "I can help you reach your goals." "I can help you solve that problem." Mistake #2: Using jargon "I can help you get more space." "I can help you transform your being." The trick is to be very, very specific... It's even okay to be too specific because even though your example of what you can do may not fit for this client, they at least will get a sense of what you can do. And, when you share with them several things you can do for clients, they may well be able to weave in your comments and buy the fabric, if not the thread. ...And to be very, very situational... It's not enough to say what you do. Rather, you need to include references to what real people are experiencing in their personal and business lives. Tips to think 'situationally'... 1. Stand in the shoes of your ideal client. Ask yourself: --What problems are they having? --What is causing their stress? --What opportunities are they missing out on because they are ______? 2. Stand in your own shoes. Ask yourself: --What did I use to have problems with that I no longer do? --What comes easy for me that perhaps I can share with others? --What's the contribution I want to make to others? 3. Stand in the shoes of humanity. Ask yourself: --What are the biggest problems that humans in our culture are dealing with right now? --What are the key skills, support structures and resources that people need to be their very, very best -- and successful? --What are some of the trends that are redefining the priorities that people have? Excellent examples of specificity... Here are examples of what coaches can say to potential clients who ask them what they do. Please note that the word 'coach' is not used in any of these responses. -- I help entrepreneurs to systematize their entire operation so that it can run without them, yet not take any of the fun out of being an entrepreneur. -- I tend to work well with mid-level corporate manager whose advancement progress has slowed to the point that they are doubting their future with the company. -- My practice is exclusively working with individuals who have too many choices/options in their lives and who feel the need to design a simple, sustainable, flexible and elegant life and lifestyle. -- The person who I can do the best work for is the person who is totally confused about who they are and want they want. -- Our firm grooms and polishes executives-to-be. -- People who come to me are particularly curious about what their mission, vision and purpose are and how to reorient their live around these. -- I work best with clients who are in overwhelming or seemingly impossible financial situations. Assignment Your assignment is to write down 20 specific things you KNOW you can do for people. (Don't think clients; think people in general, whether clients or not.) Just write. Don't edit your thoughts. When you're done go through a second time and tease them out to be highly specific and accurate. Replace vague and jargon words with simple English. This assignment may take 2-3 sittings to complete. 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. 11. 12. 13. 14. 15. 16. 17. 18. 19. 20. If you prefer, a PDF version/chart is available at http://www.coachville.com/fullpractice/x01pdf.pdf Please turn in your assignment Please email your 20 mailto:toxxx@xxxx ho will compile all responses and then I'll select 100 examples of well worded "What I Do" responses. This collection will be posted at the website within 7 days. Your contributions will be anonymous -- your name will not appear. We will be tweaking some of the responses to show "before and after" in order to illustrate weak/strong form. Final Comment People buy in different ways. There are many ways to talk about you, coaching, or the potential client. Sometimes you talk about yourself; other times, you ask questions of the potential client. The lesson above is an example of the former. Invitation Want to learn more about how to articulate exactly what you do in a highly specific way? Join Dave Buck this Wednesday, August 1, 2001, from xx to xx for an interactive TeleDiscussion on this. Dave will be helping you to tweak your phrasing so that potential clients get very, very clear on what you provide. If you can't make this session -- or the session fills up as it is likely to do -- we are RealAudio'ing the calls and you may listen in anytime. Links are posted within 24 hours of the call at http://www.coachville.com/fullpractice/links.html. To register for this discussion, address a blank email to xxxxx@xxxxx and in the subject line, type xxxx-x. You'll receive an email back within minutes with the bridge number or a notice saying that the discussion filled up. Improvements? What would you like to see added, expanded or clarified about this Full Practice Step? Please email your suggestions/requests to mailto:julie@coachville.com. Every suggestion is carefully read. Please be selfish -- we are seeking to evolve/expand the power of this course and your comments/requests make THE difference in that regard. The Full Practice Program Program is available exclusively to members of CoachVille.com |
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Thanks!
Thomas