Andrea J. LeeAndrea J. Lee

Feb 11, 07 06:28 PM | Posted by Andrea

Key #1: Understand FULLY that you can't give away what you don't have.

If you want to be generous, you must be wealthy. If you want to be attractive, you must have plenty. If you want to change lives, you must have reserve.

If you want to be a coach, you must be coachable.

In other words, stop being wishy washy about money. Make sure you are sure, in no uncertain terms, that you want to be a financially well-off actively practicing coach.

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Hi Andrea,

I would add that if you want your clients to live a big life, you must be willing to live a big life first. I once gave a sample session to a coach whose big dream was to be a singer, but had dropped out of singing lessons many years ago. After our session, she found a singing teacher and started lessons again.

Posted by: Carol Ross at March 8, 2007 4:03 PM


What I love about coaching is the positive feelings you get. What I miss about being coached is having someone be an active listener for me. Many coaches have pre-determined ideas about your path or actions. People, myself included, generally work best when the decision is theirs...when you coach from a place of hearing the underlying theme in their complaints, happiness, comments, etc.

Posted by: Debra Brown at April 29, 2007 6:29 PM


If money were not an issue, I would be buy all the inexpensive houses in my area and doing the fix up so that they could be rented affordably. I would also teach a 6 part class on self-suffecient living.

Posted by: Angela at May 9, 2007 5:57 PM


I have recently had the opportunity to think about this as a real possibility - and found it extremely difficult to imagine, after struggling for so long. sigh. At the moment the answer is that I would move forward more quickly as I would not always be trying to find the "least cost" way to get to multiple streams of coaching income, I'd travel to speak a bit and I'd definitely go take my 2 weeks of French immersion lessons. I live in France and have not taken the time to learn the language at all well.

And, finally, I'd spend several hundred thousand $$ trying to find out why my husband is ill and maybe finding a solution. But perhaps there isn't one and that is the lesson to be learned and money has nothing to do with it.

Posted by: Pam at May 10, 2007 3:34 AM


What a timely and meaningful question. As an entreprenuerial coach and visionary advisor, I daily have the experience of speaking to struggling entreprenuers that have BIG dreams and BIG vision but are on the brink of financial disaster, daily. My own fears around money have, at times, kept me stuck in a cycle focusing on bills and cut-off notices when I would rather focus on creating the next BIG thing or advancing on the next BIG IDEA!


I love this course because it has arrived at a time when I must either make the commitment to my work as an entreprenuerial coach & advisor or let it go altogether. A better question for me right now is, If I can not believe myself beyond money woes, how can I ever encourage others to do the same?

Posted by: Xina Sy at May 13, 2007 9:53 AM


Andrea,

Thank you for the course. I am very clear that in order to be a contributer, you must have your own basic needs taken care of first. Giving while depleting yourself is a demonstration of a lack of self love or self responsibility.

It is my goal to give from surplus so that I may always have the strength to contribute rather than take. Empowerment is what it is all about!

Real Power Coaching

Posted by: Wendy C. Williams at May 14, 2007 5:17 PM


Andrea,

I'm intrigued by the comment "this is the art of holding seemingly conflicting intentions." I worked with my coach to shift my definition of success from one solely defined by my income. Redefining success in terms of controllable outcomes of my business opened my mind to greater possibilities in how I spent my time. That has gone through a few refinements, but still discomfort lingered. Income was, in fact, one of the legitimate measures of success. So the challenge becomes to define a vision of success in helping people make positive change which includes being financially successful. I wonder about something like, "I will lead a fulfilling life enabling people to make positive changes in their lives" ...

Posted by: Sherry at May 21, 2007 12:08 AM


If money were no object I would spend time on the things that give me a spark and ignite my creativity: building my business instead of dragging myself to my 9 to 5, working in my yard and on my home instead of being depressed that I don't have the money to create the landscape and interior physical space that speaks to me brings others a smile, and finally, travel with my family to the places I can only dream about now.

Posted by: Yvonne Posey at May 27, 2007 4:27 PM


Thank you for the help on coaching,for now I want to work on improving and changing my life in a sucessful way so I can coach others to do the same. I found my purpose and now I need to learn and have in my experience the things I want to pass on to others. I do have a successful life coach mentoring me. She inspires on a cellular level. It is so exciting to grow and learn as a lifestyle.

Posted by: Dee at June 1, 2007 6:41 AM


Well, Andrea
I guess after reading the "first" instalment my comment would have to be that if money were no object, I'd stop flip-flopping and just DO something. We are (me and my husband) living "as if" and we are still eating and have a nice roof over our head. BUT if money really were no ostacle I know there would be many changes we would make in our lives.
For one, we would both stop jumping through hoops to try to be what people want/need/expect us to be/do/say... So from this day forward, I am believing that I am worth a large income and that WE deserve to be wealthy so that we can continue to be generous - indeed to notch up our generosity qotient sky high.
Thanks, s

Posted by: susanna at June 2, 2007 11:37 AM


If money were no object, I would spend most of my time developing programs that would help others to achieve greater satisfaction in their lives. I would especially work on the first three tier items in Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs - physiological, safety, and belonging and love. I would impact areas of education, energy, and aesthetics.

Posted by: Angie Koponen at June 3, 2007 5:35 PM


If money was endlessly available I'd spend far more time discovering my full purpose in life.

Posted by: Gill Yates at June 24, 2007 12:33 PM


I've been coaching writers for years, and many of them have gone onto to be published and/or win awards for their work.

In the past I've not charged for this service, but have come to the realisation that it's way past time I did.

The lesson was timely as this is something I've discussed with my business coach several times recently.

I've had a couple of clients say my prices are way too high, but I know they're below what others are charging. This has been holding me back, but I'm no longer prepared to work for free or low amounts.

My expertise and experience is worth way more than that.

What would/could I do if money wasn't an issue? Too many things to mention, but probably most of all help my daughter and her family pay off their home. I know from experience that making that last morgage payment is a huge relief.

Once that happened, I would no longer think seriously about anything I want or need to buy. I've recently purchased a new car, and this was a huge worry for me. I desperately needed a new car, but knew such a big monetary outlay would cause financial headaches.

Not to have to worry about such things would be the best thing I could wish for.


Posted by: Cheryl Wright at June 28, 2007 10:49 PM


I truly do not believe money is an object, so I am already working on the curriculum for the school of peace, harmony and happiness. I am researching at present and so far have made a useful tool kit which I have shared with my patietns. I am a physician and as I understand it has been very helpful to my patients.
My purpose is to help this world to be a more peaceful, harmonious and happy place for all of us to live. One of my goals is to get the Noble peace prize and help spread the peace and happiness even further.
Success, has never been difficult to achieve for me especially with my kind of life, full of excitements. What I am working now on is to understand the balance of life better.
I truly believe that finding and maintaining peace and happiness is not difficult at all once the tool kit is used, it is only the balance that needs continous practice.
Good luck to all of you who are looking to make your life better and more fulfilled. May you find peace and true happiness wherever you are.

Posted by: roya yar at July 24, 2007 9:34 AM


If money were absolutely no object, I would take my children on a grand adventure that they would remember for the rest of their lives. I would invest my time and energy into surrounding myself with people that inspire me to action. I would write, a lot...I would beautify my surroundings, immersing myself in peaceful, resonant tones and colors. Coaching would become a joyous occasion to lighten the load, lift the spirits and bring joy to the lives of each and every client. Light would follow me everywhere. And yes, it is absolutely possible to incorporate this and more into my life right now, finances being what they are. It's perspective...it's about choosing thoughts that empower me and that lift me up, not thoughts that burden me or cause me to doubt my effectiveness.

Posted by: Angie Hewerdine at July 24, 2007 5:34 PM


Dear Andrea,

Thanks! This discussion is magically timely for me too. I have `discovered' my lifework of being a Lightworker - Coach, Consultant etc. Used to work with a MNC and now setting up my own consultancy firm. Fully agree that i can only coach others to Big Idea, prosperity, financial freedom, success etc when i personally am one too. It is my intention to have the financial freedom and abundance first. Thanks for sharing your `knowing' & ' enlightenment' on this topics with us. To everyone on this forum, may all be blessed abundantly! May all your heart intentions come true. Loving bless....cb

Posted by: CB, Malaysia at August 7, 2007 5:37 PM


If I had no money worries I would be able to get my message out to more people that as Oscar Wilde say, "Life is too important to take seriously." That we all need to laugh more and help others laugh more. I sometimes think that I stop money from coming into my life, as it gives me an excuse. Thanks for the great question.

Jana Ruth

Posted by: Jana Ruth at August 26, 2007 2:56 PM


If money were no object, I'd be able to let go of mundane and weighty financial concerns, that sap creativity, energy and time. I'd be freer to follow my fancy and pursue the things in my personal, family and career lives that are truly fulfilling and meaningful. I'd play more, laugh often and indulge myself and others in a way that I once did, long ago. I'd always ask myself, "Do I really want to do this or is it that I think I must/should?"

Posted by: Toni at August 28, 2007 2:16 PM


If money were not an issue, I would create a lot more abundance for those around me as well. I would certainly do some things personally like take a couple months off and bike across the country. I have been contemplating this for a few years and would set up speaking engagements along the way. I would also create a foundation that would develop affordable housing projects that progressively build individuals and families up so that they are secure in their foundations. Everyone has the right to food, shelter and clothing, the basic needs, and I believe we can create the means by which those who need help can be helped while maintaining and, perhaps, resurrecting their pride and sense of self worth.

Posted by: Pat at August 28, 2007 8:53 PM


First, I appreciate this program and it has come at the perfect time. It seems to be the staging area I am inclined to bring to the next level. I manifested the perfect partner, am a successful coach and teacher, and in excellent health. My husband's salary is in the top 5% in the country and combined, we're in the top 3%!! I was startled to realize this, even though, of course I knew by many standards we are so prosperous. However, we are both spenders--me clothes, shoes, and bags and him gadgets and such. We haven't really learned the art of saving or sacrificing the insignificant things to really have what we want: My husband would like to go into semi-retirement to write some books to leave a legacy of his amazing wholistic/energeitc healing work. Another dream we have is to start a foundation for disadvantaged minority children offering programs in music, dance and theatre.is to buy a 40 foot sailboat and live aboard for 2 years.

Posted by: Pamela Ramey-Tatum at September 8, 2007 8:59 PM


I think that one of the ways we can truly embrace being a "financially well-off" coach is to embrace all the gifts and talents we have that can be beautifully shared with the world. Each person/coach has SO much to offer.

If money were never a concern again, I'd (1) add a large glassed-in room to my house where I could stare at evergreens while I write, and (2) buy an apartment building, named "Launching Pad" with a courtyard...for single parents; it would have a daycare, 3 therapists, 3 coaches, and a financial planner all on staff. People would apply to live here, and learn to "launch themselves" into living delicious lives. They'd have greatly reduced rent and could stay for 3 years. Then they'd "launch." It would be a loving, forward-moving, goal-attaining, tranformational community.

Posted by: Nicki McClusky at September 9, 2007 5:05 AM


Andrea,
Thanks for this first installment! Excellent points and questions.

If money was no longer a concern, I'd quit my part time elementary teaching job, and dedicate my time and energy full-time to my life coaching business and writing career. My husband could retire and pursue his writing/art business and we could travel together. I would also open the virtual holistic resource center my business partner and I have started (www.sanctuaryatcrossroads.com) as a physical place. I would purchase a large piece of property for Sanctuary, and build a log cabin on the property for my family to live in. Both of our children would have their college educations paid for, and we'd have money to help them pursue their dreams.

I would say my money issue is that I focus on the "what if" in the direction of not making or having enough, instead of "what if" in the direction of having wealth. One technique I've found to be very effective for myself and my clients is to focus on the area of health, and let the healing generate from that space.

My goal for myself is to focus on this in the area of wealth. When I feel concerned about my financial prosperity, I am going to turn my attention to all the financial prosperity I have manifested up to this point. Hopefully, from this place, the opportunity to continue to attract abundance will grow.

Thanks again for giving me the opportunity to put this new goal in writing!

Posted by: Nancy Nicholas at September 9, 2007 9:20 AM


Thanks Andrea for holding me accountable to being a wealthy high performance coach and achieving my true potentiality. Given some of the comments posted, there's incredible synergy happening. It’s truly inspiring, especially given where I’m headed.

It’s no coincidence that one of my tasks this week was to write my 5 year goals and 90 day mission. What timing, hey! So here's the abbreviated version...

If money were no object my future Life and Business plans would be exponentially accelerated - I'd simply travel globally to do more to inspire and engage others to do more.

Essentially, I would be globe trotting with my (soon to be manifested) life and business partner — enjoying, encouraging and inspiring exhilarating global cultural and business exchanges (adventuring, keynote speaking, coaching and connecting). Living life to the full, truly blessed to witness our life’s work and purpose coming to fruition —

  • Changing the way existing and potential Youth and Adult Entrepreneurs do business, locally, nationally, globally and empowering future generations to follow their example. Creating sustainable communities thru business.

  • Empowering those in disadvantaged or impoverished communities in taking advantage of opportunities (locally, nationally and globally) to grow and achieve their true potential in life and business.

If money were no object, my Business Trilogy (current business plus 2 planned) would already be global 'cash cows' professionally managed by awesome people who share my vision. To enable, empower and transform entrepreneurs and small to medium business owners, plus charitable organisations, into high performance and extremely profitable organisations. To provide the environment and resources for Social Enterprises to learn, exchange, connect and grow globally. To create wealth and ‘giving back’. (The more successful our clients are, the more they can contribute into the communities where they operate).

My global businesses flourish with teams of awesome coaches, consultants, facilitators, project and professional managers and advisors ensuring each project and business is well managed and successful beyond all expectations. Our clients achieve the true potential of their business with outstanding value and opportunities to grow and contribute to a better world for us all…

In effect, my current business www.vipcorp.com.au (providing business innovation and high performance coaching, consulting and events) will in 2008 transform into a Global Coaching and Consulting Institute. The second will be launched in 2008 to connect, inspire and assist our global members (social entrepreneurs) in creating wealth and contributing local, nationally and globally. The third also to be launched in 2008 will transform the organisations serving ‘those in need’ into high performance vehicles we can then channel much needed funding and resources thru to exponentially increase their reach and impact in this world. To contribute toward achieving the UN 2015 Millennium Goals — alleviating world hunger and poverty. Ensuring a better world for all to share, care and create their true potentiality.

My BHAG is to have 10M Social Enterprises contributing at least US$10M to Charitable Causes within 10 years (2017). Creating sustainable communities thru social enterprise — with each business creating a positive legacy for generations to follows.

Realise this is not my goal to achieve alone! My role is to hold the vision of what is possible. To keep moving forward, connecting with those able to contribute and transform this vision into reality. So who do you know who I need to know and make this happen?

Posted by: Annemaree Cotterell at September 14, 2007 3:00 AM


If money were not am issue, I would be freed from the everyday worry that drins me of my creative energy.
I would be able to get some issue with my home resolved, take my kids on a vacation, establish college funds for my three children
and buy a much needed car. I would have the reserves to obtain my CFP and finish the e-bbook that I have been working on. I would enjoy working with clients on their financial issues and expand the value offered in my practice.

I would smile more.

Posted by: Nichole at September 20, 2007 5:51 AM


If money were not an issue I would deepen into the feeling of safety, support, abundance and joy that is already present in my life. I would be more generous with my financial contributions to organizations and even in my social life. I would be able to release my finanicial worries quicker and replace them more gracefully with the Truth of what I know, which is, we are all Abundant. I would hire a top team to work with me to get my one-woman show to the next level.

Posted by: Brenda Adelman at September 22, 2007 12:25 PM


What could I do if money were no longer an issue? How perfect Andrea, that you give me the opportunity to state my commitments publicly here as this is exactly how I effectively manifest my desires. Thank you.

I am doing it! My business and life partner and I have just sold our house, moved to a new city and community and are currently examining and laying the foundation for how we can more effectively (and delightfully of course), take our lives and multiple-business activities to the next levels of thrival.

I am restarting up my coaching practice and loving the abundance of new clients who are showing up currently. I am juggling my expanding practice with growing a business with my partner as artist and designer creating e-brochures and e-books (thru our desktop publishing business). I love working together designing the products in the mornings, and then coaching in the afternoons, it’s ideal!

AND people are finally showing up to explore how they and their services and products can be showcased in really jazzy ways thru this technology that has such wonderful multi-media capabilities. These digital page turning products are gorgeous, entertaining, and unique. I intend that we shall within 6 months, (with a sigh of relief), be gratefully hiring other dependable and brilliant designers to assist us in production so we can have more time to relax and take it easy. Then we can get on with doing important things like going to the beach a few afternoons a week, attending more musical live events and local social activities which will support us to enjoy more dancing in the moonlight. Cheers.


Posted by: Alana at September 25, 2007 2:02 AM


If money were no object...
I would be free to coach and write as I wanted without occasionally feeling compelled to find "proper" paying work. My husband would be free to quit his job and devote himself to writing. I would travel to Italy, India, Alaska and many many more places, as well as England to visit my family.

Posted by: Fiona at September 29, 2007 7:34 AM


Thank you Andrea. Great to be 'reminded' of the law of abundance. Things do always come to me when I allow them into my life. My fear holds away the love that is everwhere wanting to fill me up to overflowing. I am my own gatekeeper. I need to remember this! Or better yet, I am remembering and practising this!

Posted by: Lorie at October 5, 2007 11:29 AM


If money were a non-issue I would spend time gathering knowledge through books, magazines, seminars and create a forum to share all the great information that I now have. I would teach people to "find a way" instead of settling for pre-set limits.
I would travel with my wife, spoil her, open a business, no an empire with businesses focused on helping empower people to succeed.

I would work my ideas into lucrative realities. I would travel to Bruny Island (my last name, but not my island - yet). I would have a set of golf clubs in my trunk and stop at any golf course I run into on my travels. I would take those weekly emails I get on weekend travel getaways and well, just getaway. ( I could go on...)

Posted by: Mike Bruny at October 5, 2007 11:43 PM


If money were not an issue I would sift through my clients from www.corballis.com and only keep the interesting and pleasant ones and then devote my newly-found free time to saving biodiversity on planet earth with mass campaigns and publicity stunts!

Posted by: Tony Corballis at October 6, 2007 7:06 AM


If money wasn’t an issue, which is a very important one here in South America, I would do what I enjoy and do best. Coaching individuals, men and women that struggled with personal and relation issues, helping to take action and make their dreams true.
I would put my energy full in a new and exciting project I’m launching in these days: The local Coaching Community in the country I live: http://coachinguruguay.blogspot.com/. For I do believe Coaching is one of the most helpful ways to open minds in opportunities and results for the personal and consequently the community all.
I would perfection my abilities and also take experience in ADD Coaching which is other issue I am personally interested in. Of course I would help my son with time and support so he would reach to his personal and vocational goals. So let’s see what’s coming in the next lesson?

Posted by: Gerardo from Uruguay at October 6, 2007 3:31 PM


If money were no object, I would take my family on an around the world trip, stopping in South Africa, Spain, Canada, USA, Mexico and Cuba. I would continue working on the third draft of my novel with my mentor. I would quit copywriting and work solely on my creative writing, blogging and designing workshops for women. I may even go back to university to study sociology and gender studies. I would definitely renovate my house, enjoy it for a few more months and then sell it to move to the beach, where I would find the perfect block of land and get my dad (he's an architect) to design my dream house. I would increase my donations to my favored charities and would also buy two new vehicles - I don't care which.

Of course, money cannot buy what I want most fo all - to be a best selling author...

Posted by: Kelly at October 10, 2007 11:01 PM


I realized from your email that a majority of my thoughts are not about what I want to do, but how to get the money to do. This is a very important realization, and I see that it affects my perception of every person I look to for mentorship. I don't see my mentors as happy, prosperous people who do what they want, with only a few exceptions. Most of them are struggling too.

I am working on being a best-selling author. Being able to give up the side jobs or even the day job would help that goal trememdously--so there's a goal--I'd spend the time researching, writing, networking with my virtual assistants....

Posted by: Charlotte at October 19, 2007 7:49 AM


Hmmmmm...if I never had to worry about money? This question makes me think about the fact that I have not been as conscientious about savings as I should. Recently I have taken steps toward building my independent business, something I have been putting off for several years. More than the money factor, I have put off this dream simply because of fear and not wanting to give up personal time. Time and commitment to the process has held me back in spite of multiple gifts of opportunity which have presented themselves along the way. My one friend reminds me that I have "favor all around" me and that I need to let go and trust the process. Maybe I just wasn't ready to take the leap however I feel that I have certainly taken the leap into the "No Fear Zone" and am ready to take on the challenge! One of my greatest challenges is that I am very concerned about making my services which raises the issue of what to charge for my services. I remind myself continually that my experience and the quality of services that I will provide ARE top dollar! I will not skimp in my service and therefore I should not skimp myself on fees deserved! At times, my inner critic rears her ugly little head and when she does I whisk her away by reminding myself that
"I am deserving of every wonderful thing!".

Posted by: carmen highsmith at October 25, 2007 7:55 AM


Hi Andrea

This lesson really connected.
Although I am focused on abundance and greatness, money has been a dominating factor in my life for a long time. Primarily a negative one.

I am pretty centred these days albeit money issues can unsettle me quickly.

My primary goal in life is to be happy. Having money as a non-issue would assist that objective.

I am committing to having clarity on my current financial situation, establishing a positive relationship with money and opening up to your lessons to move through and beyond to coaching prosperity.

Mark Semple CCC

Posted by: Mark at October 29, 2007 5:54 AM


If money was no issue I would encourage my husband to sell his business (or give it away) and find something that he really wants to do.

I would block out two weeks every three months and take my boys somewhere fabulous to build up a bank of fantastic memories and experiences for them (and me).

I would do all/ any self development programs I'm interested in and fly anywhere in the world to attend them.

Making these ideas a possibility means that I have to let go of the scarcity mindset I'm frequently hit with (can I afford to pay these bills, can I keep up with school fees, what if I don't get any work for the next three months). Change it to: I now have a waiting list of customers and have to delegate work to colleagues; I am in demand as a trainer and coach as I get results for my clients; word of mouth is my biggest marketing tool. My passive income is as much as and becoming more than my active income.

I have an abundance mindset!
Maree

Posted by: Maree at November 20, 2007 6:55 PM


Hi Andrea,

If I don't have to focus on paying the mortgage and saving, I would spent my time creating products/services for coaching practice. I am a coach who is working a full-time job, so I don't have a lot of creative time. My dream is to grow my practice, take care of my mother financially, support my favorite non profit organization and travel abroad.

Posted by: JazzyC at November 21, 2007 6:27 AM


Thank for this.
If money was not an issue I would open a retreat center that promoted harmonious living and creativity for self-discovery. Classes, workshops, retreats using various techniques, including coaching would help people find a way to begin living their life purpose.

Posted by: Janice at November 22, 2007 6:16 AM


I stated my overall objective about ten years ago as, "Marcia Hamiltilton provides policy planning and input toward improving the circumstances of women and teenagers in the US." We were living overseas at the time. I am doing this, doing personal planning with at risk youth and women in prison...but could do so much more. If I had all the money in the world, I would create training centers where youth actually did things, produced objects and accomplished physical tangible results. We have so failed our youth!

Posted by: Marcia Hamilton at December 7, 2007 1:52 AM


If money were no longer an issue in my life, I would first buy a comfortable yet modest house or duplex in the city, and then renovate and decorate to suit my taste. I might even have a room as a dedicated office to see clients in! I would then take one really nice trip per year, and maybe two other smaller, more local trips/getaways. I would also support my husband to go back to school to study for the career he really wants.

Once these things were taken care of, I would really put myself into my work, taking courses to improve my professional and business skills, create new programs and workshops, investing in some coaching to figure out my real purpose and niche. I would take personal interest courses, focusing on my health, spirituality and interests, which would provide me with the solid foundation to with which to invest in my business. I'm getting excited already!

Posted by: Julia Di Nardo at December 9, 2007 6:30 AM


Firstly the thought of money not being an issue is so liberating and relaxing - money is a big issue right now and dominates my thoughts! It would just be so great to have a reserve of living expenses rather than living month to month. If money were not an issue for me I would spend time apprenticing with the best coaches, facilitators, sports psychologists learning, developing, practicing, working and creating my own approach and style. I could enjoy collaborating with compatible and like minded people on dynamic projects. I could write a book or two! I could pursue my passion for performance coaching within motorsport building my experience and reputation in order to generate work by referrals. I could work 9 months of the year allowing for time to travel and completely switch off. I could enjoy a full life with filled with all the activities that I adore and that make me feel alive (and that cost money I currently don't have!) such as motor racing and travel.

Posted by: Jane at December 9, 2007 1:31 PM


Thank you for this reminder. Just before I opened the e-course in my in-box, I was reviewing my belief that you must manage, care for, and fully appreciate what you already have before you can really be open to receiving more into your life. I have been practicing this for a few years, and I have seen amazing changes in my life. I disagree that you have to be weathy to be generous, but I do agree that it is important to hold a higher vision for our own lives, to the same degree that we do this for our clients.

Posted by: Cynthia Yoder at December 22, 2007 8:16 PM


hi andrea!
thank you!
I want to be a financially well off, actively practicing coach and counselor. i want to be a very wealthy practitioner.

My money issues seem to revolve around not having enough~either not creating enough to meet my bare needs -or- occasionally making enough to live, but then being so happy to have it (hah!) that i spend it quickly (sushi? a haircut? back to the same place of 'oh, it's here and oh, its gone'

If money was no longer an issue, i could live my life with more freedom and less anxiety. i could travel to hawaii, i could purchase presents for my friends and family, i could dress in clothes that flatter me, i could live in a larger home. i could buy a home. i could get massages weekly. i could have health care. i could have lab tests done to address long-term health issues. i could eat sushi whenever i wanted to!

the plan? whoah, that feels a bit daunting. i feel like i am in process right now, slowly addressing the debt, doing a great job with my clients so they tell lots and lots of other people about me, becoming more organized so i can better manage the money i have...

Posted by: rebecca at December 27, 2007 12:05 AM


What could I do in my life, if money was absolutely no longer an issue? I could release myself from what holds me back from full service to my niche:
1. Dependance on a major client who trivializes the value of my work.
2. Money Anxiety: limited reserve; buyer remorse.
3. Impulse spending based on deprivation and then "I deserve it".
4. Anger and guilt about not being able to take advantage of opportunities for wealth.

I would benefit from
1. Increased creative energy.
2. Sustained feeling of ease and lightness.
3. Confidence in the choices I make regarding money - spending and saving.
4. Sense of well-being, accomplishment, and happiness.
5. More time and focus on my top two priorties: myself and my partner.

My plan:
1. Eliminate debt.
2. Shift my perception from dread and fear of money to love and appreciation for the power of (my) money to serve me and others.
2. Refine and work my marketing plan which includes multiple streams of income.

Posted by: Patricia at January 5, 2008 5:32 PM


If money was not an issue:

I would love to take CTI's Leadership course, and ORSC Relationship courses. I would focus on building my coaching practise, and aspire to travel with my family around the world.

Interestingly, I would like to continue for at least one more year, to work at my present job with the Blue Jays baseball team. I am blessed to be able to work at such a great place. But my passion for coaching is where I need to be.

Reading back on what I have written, I realize that I am doing all the things I would do even I did have the money. I am taking these courses, I am working at the ballpark, I am working on building my practise. The only thing that money would help me with , would be to pay for the courses and allow my family to travel around the world more.

But I do agree with this first lesson, sometimes it is a lot easier to give away your coaching sessions less expensively because you want to help people and not lose a client. I need help in that department.

Looking forward to the next lesson.

Posted by: Juan Espinoza at April 12, 2008 9:13 AM


If money is no longer an issue...
I would be free.
Free of debt, free to do what I want, my mind would be free to learn and grow and I can pay for any training I think i need for my development. Energy and creativity would be running free. Free of many fears. Free to travel. I can give my children all the possibilities to develop themselves. Free to choose where I live. I can give back, help others
Possibilities are endless...
good exercise to write it down. energy starts flowing and get more excited because there are lots of things one doesn't need an endless supply of money for. It's "just" our attitude, self talk, believes, fears that can make or break us.
thanks Andrea

Posted by: sonny at April 21, 2008 1:26 PM


If money were not an issue, I would be able to:

Travel to Tibet, India, South America, and other places I would love to visit.

Landscape my yard and renovate the house.

Have more time for creative endeavors.

Provide more financial support to the nonprofit for which I work and other nonprofits/causes that are dear to me.

My plan is to commit to being a coach and kick off my practice.

Posted by: Laurie at April 23, 2008 5:40 AM


If money was absolutely no longer an issue, I would:
-take my kids with me travel the world
-have my 12 year old home schooled,
-send my other daughter to Harvard University(she so wants to go there);
-purchase a nice old fashioned family home on 10 acres of land with lots of trees and greenery on an island (no more snow and cold);
-take care of my parents better financially;
-spend time basking in the sun, reading and exploring the possibility of writing which I have always wanted to do;


-spend time advocating/trying to get high school systems to introduce more life management skills in their curriculum and not just concentrate on academics


- work on getting improved academics in third world countries (everyone else gives money food clothing which is needed but we also need to educate them and counsel them so they can learn to take care of themselves and to see the options and opportunities available thoroughout the world).

Thats what I would do

Posted by: Gail at May 21, 2008 10:52 AM


What a great question! If money were no object I would build an empire with my coaching practice without worrying whether or not I have the funds to continue growing. I would take vacations visiting all of my friends who have moved away and to tropical locales when I wanted to without worrying if I could afford it. I would entertain family and friends more frequently. I would feel less stressed, more focused, and full prepared to make a difference.

Posted by: Karen at May 21, 2008 2:35 PM


If money were not an issue I would get out and hold free seminars for women. I would complete my garden makeover. I would build my holiday home. If money were no issue I would complete the renovation of my bathroom.
If money were no issue I would give more to charity and more of my time. I agree, thinking small keeps people small. For a long time I struggled with charging my worth, I am working every day and the change is happening.

Posted by: Fiona at May 25, 2008 4:03 AM


Andrea,

So, money being of no object or concern or even an excuse-then to just live fully without an outcome. chase the dreams and enjoy the entire journey.

With coaching being part of that picture, then to fully enjoy and be present for coaching. yes, its true that some are doing it for the love of helping/assisting others find themselves. Teachers are lumped into that label as well.

On some tv program an actor was stating he/she was having so much fun and was truly doing what they wanted, acting, that they found it so funny that they were being paid to do it.

And, why not the same in coaching. We each have chosen this field and seem to be enjoying it fully, so why not get paid for doing what you enjoy.

Posted by: chris at May 27, 2008 8:38 AM


This is so timely for me right now. I do not have any problem charging what I feel I am worth as a coach, but how do you get others to realize the benefits and pay? Money right now is a HUGE struggle for me. I mean HUGE!!!! I am broke, I am not sure how I am going to pay my rent, and my credit cards are maxed out. I am going to have to stop working on my coaching business - which I love working on - and get a regular job so that I can eat, pay the rent, and catch up on bills. So, my commitment is to not let depression of all this overwhelm me, buckle under and get a job, and after paying off all my bills, once again focus on my business. In between, I can put on weekend classes and keep promoting. My magically thinking world (what I would do if money were not an issue) wants to just do my business as a coach - but my reality world says now is not the time to do that. It is sad for me - very sad.

Posted by: Judith Auslander at May 28, 2008 11:38 PM


I want to be a very financially successful coach for many reasons, but particularly, to be in a postion for my husband and I to see all of our dreams come to fruition with much money left over to share with our children and their families. I also want to be in a position to be a "giver" to the many children in the world that need our support!
To think that I can accomplish this while helping others live their dreams is such an empowering blessing.

Posted by: Lindel at July 2, 2008 7:24 AM


If money were no issue:
1) I'd flit, never working on one project for too long and helping as many people as I could along the way.
2) I'd start a women's center. I already have the outline and have been pursuing an advisory board.
3) I'd spend lots of time creating art projects and supporting artists.
4) I'd create fantastic local events - dinner parties, home concerts, art shows, etc. bringing together diversified groups of people for the purpose of making the local world a better place.
5) I'd start and support schools for gifted children.

I guess I've always been a strong philathopist, but have never had the money to back it up. I'd do all these things and more, but I'd never "work" a day in my life.

Posted by: Angie Koponen at July 17, 2008 12:02 PM


I believe there is a time for money to be an issue and a time for it to not be an issue. I cherish both.

The most important spiritual discoveries of my life came out of my poverty. I do not desire poverty, but if it comes I embrace it. I have gone from homelessness to owning my own ISP (Internet Services Provider) business, successfully running it for 7 years before selling it and writing my book, $ecret$ - 12 Principles of Prosperity for Spiritual Entrepreneurs.

I once read of a Vietnamese man who was a millionaire four times in his life... and three of those times, through no fault of his own, his country of refuge was taken over and he became a penniless refugee again. His last place of refuge was the United States. He had a cousin who owned a bakery and he and his wife lived in the back room on a straw filled mattress for two years, washing in the mall bathroom, even foregoing a car in order to save every penny. In two years he bought out his cousin and is now, you guessed it, a millionaire again. Hard work and suffering through a period of painful self-discipline is sometimes the only way to wealth. We in America are for the most part narcissistic and lazy!

I do not believe or teach the foolish notion that all you have to do is think positive thoughts and imagine wealth and those thoughts alone will bring you wealth. That is only one part of the equation which works for some people. There are government policies and enemy invasions and competitors and weather, all beyond your control; there is the vital importance of preparation for the tasks/goals you have chosen; and there is another law beside the law of attraction which especially works against the impoverished, a law that Jesus taught along with the law of attraction, but which no one is teaching today.

There are many, many who are now saying that the Law of Attraction didn't work for them; you can find their posts all over the Internet. While those in the LOA movement will say these people didn't visualize or focus their attention well enough or that they didn't have enough faith, I would tell them about this "other" law and a lightbulb would go off in their head! For those who are deep in debt, who have few friends, who lack education and who have few outside resources to network with are a special case requiring an understanding of poverty and the law that governs it.

With the pending launch of our membership site, money will no longer be an issue. We will use most of that money to help others, by building 3Circles Church Communities. These will be sustainable, intentionally planned, faith-based, green communities that offer a safe haven for raising one's family outside this failed system but still maintaining interaction with those outside our communities via commerce, education and volunteer work. I have no desire for ostentatious mansions, $100,000 cars or to be the sole arbiter of every decision just because I am the founder.

Posted by: Leroy Grey at August 10, 2008 6:05 PM




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